I don’t even know when I wrote what you are about to read or where I had planned to publish it, but I found it while organizing content for my book project. Originally it was titled ‘Missing A Lot.’A�Although I explain how much my job as a flight attendant makes me miss out on happenings, I only feel that what I will be missing soon is myA�international airlinea��even the worst parts of it. Scheduling, jet lag, commuting. Ok, maybe not commuting, but, leaving is actually a fairlyA�heartbreaking decision. And, as you keep asking on Instagram or in person why I’m quitting, I really don’t know what to tell you. I know I don’t owe you any explanation. It’s my life. Remember that, “It’s your life,” when you face a turning point. You don’t really have to explain yourself to anyone. I’m not sure if the best decisions can be explained, because gut intuition has a way of failing to find words. Sometimes, life just calls us toA�make decision, otherwise we end up missing a lot; missingA�everything.A�I don’t know if this blog will be an explanation as to why I’m leaving (because there is always a lot to a decision like this), but maybe you need to read it. That is why it’s published here. That is why you are here.
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Sounds amazing, right? Sounds amazing to live a�?the flight attendant life.a��A�
But, are these terms and phrases for one who country hops as frequently as a�?normalsa�? drive to work simply code for a�?missing a lot?a�� Because, as much as you witness as a world traveler, ita��s amazing how much you miss.
You miss weddings.
You miss Christmases.
You miss Hanukkahs
You miss birthdays.
You miss home, your kids, your boyfriend or husband.
You constantly feel jet lag and you constantly feel like something is missing. But, you know if you give up this cabin crew gig, ita��s just going to be one more thing added to that a�?list of miss.a�� Youa��re going to miss your current career. Ita��s a lifestyle, and you have become so used to constantly packing and unpacking that switching to settled seems like a mountain you never want to begin to climb. Gosha��it would be great at the top, thougha��
Your heart has been captivated by the world and this fly life. It sometimes is quite fly. A quick trip to Tel Aviv. The typical Miami red eye with a day rest. The overnights in London and very fun crew outings in Copenhagen make you say, a�?Oka�� I can hang. Ia��m not sure if Ia��m exactly happy, but Ia��m not exactly unhappy.a�?
Is the desire for happiness simply a selfish first world quest? Some in this world are simply trying to survivea��
Some days, it does feel like a game of survival; this flying world. You are so tired of the pilots, so fed up with your cabin crew, so disgusted by scheduling that, a�?You cana��t evena��a�? A few weeks ago, I stopped bringing it all upa�� the everything that was breaking me in my world of goinga�� because it would all come pouring out in a torrent of tears, ellipsised by words and explanations.
Elijah, my hot pilot friend, tells me, a�?Kara, you gotta leave. Your job is killing you.a�? I look back at his bright blue eyes with a hallow brown eyed gaze. Ita��s not killing me, but if I had a dollar for how many times Ia��ve told someone this week that, a�?Ia��m just so tired,a�? I would definitely have a lot more dollars in my bank account.
I get to see everything, and yet, it feels like Ia��m missing everything. Ia��m missing everything that matters. Ia��m falling steadfastly into a world of complete fun and loving it and cherishing it, but constantly wondering when I get to be home. Like, really home.
Live somewhere, you know? Does two days a month count?